Non-Fiction Review -- Drink: The Intimate Relationship Between Women and Alcohol (Johnston)

Someday I'll blog more regularly again.  But I do want to at least keep up my reviews since 1) I promise to as part of the whole "getting free advance copies" deal and 2) I like the basic idea of book reviews from normal folks. 

• Drink: The Intimate Relationship Between Women and Alcohol by Ann Dowsett Johnston

A rarity for me, a non-fiction pick, Drink is part memoir, part examination of women's relationship with alcohol.  Johnston shares her own story, both as the daughter of an alcoholic mother and as an alcoholic herself.  Her work is motivated by the underlying fact that alcoholism, once largely a male problem, is impacting more and more women, especially young women.  The non-memoir sections include discussions with experts in several fields and, often quite raw, interviews with women affected by alcoholism. 

Each chapter in the book focuses on a different aspect of the relationship between women and alcohol.  There is a really interesting look on how the alcohol industry took very calculated steps to bring their product to a female audience, a previously neglected market sector.  Marketing efforts gradually brought women into the fold, moving them from alcopops (flavored drinks that mask the taste) through several steps to straight shots (including circumstances that find women drinking harder alcohol than their male companions).  Some of the most emotional and hard-to-rad sections (from a subject standpoint, the text is always quite readable) look at alcohol and young women, heck, young girls.  She makes a very direct link between early (think age 8 or so) alcoholism and sexual abuse, a tie that starts out as a causal relationship and become a vicious cycle as drinking (and drug use) make women more vulnerable to assault/abuse and women turn more to alcohol to mentally/emotionally escape trauma.  Other issues: women's physical response to alcohol, alcohol and motherhood, drinking culture on college campuses, alcohol and romance, alcohol and relationships, and the recovery process.

I found this book very readable and very interesting.  The information on marketing and the general role of the industry in the rise of female drinking weren't necessarily surprising, but it wasn't a story I'd heard before.  I appreciated the personal stories, including Johnston's own story as a professional success story with a long-held secret, although there's definitely a tendency towards shock value (particularly the several stories involving very early drinking).  I believe there is an often-underappreciated value in personal stories as evidence...it is probably also a style very much tied to women's studies in general. 

Overall, this is an issue that I hadn't heard much about (with the exception of some of the issues involving college-age women and the "drunkorexia" topic) and one that needs to be discussed.   Notably, every medical provider who noticed the book (my life involves many waiting rooms...bringing the book wasn't a special effort, it was just what I happened to be reading) commented on it and nodded when I mentioned the rise in alcoholism in women.  Female alcoholism will only become more prevalent without focused attention and it will impact every facet of society.  This is a worthwhile look at a social/medical/economic/etc. issue that needs to be talked about and Drink is a worthwhile introduction to the topic.  Recommended for people interested in social issues, women's health, and a story-centered approach.  Might frustrate those who prefer a focus on "harder" facts.

Four of five stars.

a moment to grieve

I keep thinking I'll find the time to blog again and it keeps not happening.  My father was always really interested in my writing....heck, he wanted to read my ghost-blogging stuff too but 'fessing up kinda defeats that whole "ghost" idea....  Since he loved the idea of the blog, he deserves a post. 

We had a complicated relationship, but it grew and prospered as I became an adult.  I still called him "Daddy," even if I drew looks.  He wanted nothing more than for those he loved to be happy.  He also wanted to help people...which is, sadly, all-too-rare in his chosen field of neurosurgery.  His staff always had kind words for him...I believe that the way people treat those who are "lower on the office food chain" is one of the best measures of a person.

He passed away very suddenly on Tuesday November 5.  He was 66.  He'd done three miles that day and then felt ill.  One moment he was here, the next he was gone.  I didn't get to say good bye and that saddens me.  The last time we talked, he'd woken me from a nap and I was groggy and asked if we could start aiming for a different time of day (he had an uncanny ability to wake me!).  But I know he knew I loved him.  I also know he loved me and the other members of our family, be they of blood or of heart. 

Goodbye Daddy.  I love you.